nice guys

[benCA]

There is been a lot of talk about the nice guys. And guys bragging about their nice personality. But don't nice guys finish last? I know girls who told me, you know what, when I met him I gave him 5, now that I got to know him, I give him 8, because of his personality, but I want him, that other good looking, probably not as nice guy. So, why there is much talk about who are the nicest when at the end you'll get attracted to the bad boy who won't treat you as nice as the other guy. Admit it, if you have two guys who are on the same level with looks and niceness, you'll get attracted to the one with an attitude. We know that a nice guy/girl is what we need, but human nature wants what we can't have or what is bad for us so we go for somebody that thrills us. So I say drop the nice guy routine and show some attitude!

[Edited by benCA on 11th May 2002 at 11:56]

[jutka]

The nice guys who finish last are the ones who are going after the girls with the attitudes. That's what I think. The women who want the bad acting guy are usually immature themselves. I have a nice guy and I think he's great.

[benCA]

In a way I agree with both... Its nice to know that nice guys don't finish last in your book

[jutka]

Sometimes girls use the word "nice" as codeword for wimp or doormat. Mature women like nice guys, but they like a bit of a challenge as well. Nice guys are GREAT in MY book. Some prefer thugs and gorillas.

[Lilly]

HAHAHAHAH GORILLAS, and with sloping foreheads and a unibrow. hahahahah and with knuckles that scrape the sidewalk. ahahhaha

[jutka]

Women who chase the bad guys with attitudes will learn the hard way. Hopefully they will see that they bear some of the fault for their heartbreak and will not go around bashing all men, as is sometimes the case.

Jutka

[Mariboulg]

Maybe it’s psychological ?
Something to do with your past relationships or your childhood ?

But also, I think bad boys represent in a perhaps "exaggerated" way "that masculinity" that draws women to them.

Any way, if you are looking for a serious relationship or someone for marriage, I don’t think you want to get married with trouble (troublesome person).